The purpose of the Celebrate Recovery Ministry at First Baptist is to change the course of our lives, from following selfish ambitions and personal desires which end up causing us so much grief, to knowing and following God's perfect and Christ-centered plan and purpose for our lives which will by necessity lead us out of bondage to our old, painful resentments, hurts, addictions, and habits. Our healing is to be for His glory, not our own satisfaction.


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Friday, September 25, 2015

Step 10 - Crossroads


Principle 7: Reserve a daily time with God for self-examination, Bible reading, and prayer in order to know  and follow God and His will for my life.
Step 10: We continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong, promptly admitted it.

If you’ve been following the steps to this point, you’ve gotten off to a great start.  Here’s what you’ve done so far, you have: faced your denial and admitted that you cannot fight this spiritual battle alone, submitted to God by surrendering your life and will to Jesus Christ, sought the Holy Spirit in taking an honest look at your life by listing, confessing, and admitting all your wrongdoings, offered your forgiveness to those that have hurt you, and made amends for all the harm that you have caused to others.  Overall: you’ve submitted to all the changes God wanted to make in you so far.  WOW! That’s quite a journey!  At the start, most of us would have said that it was an impossible journey.  You could never have done the work that the first 9 steps ask of you, and you would be right.  YOU can’t, but God can.

Yet perhaps some of you have not made that entire journey…  Maybe it loomed so large at the start, you never really started.  Maybe you did start, but you really only wanted something fixed.  Maybe you started but then relapsed…and felt as defeated as ever.

If you didn’t really follow the steps, didn’t turn ALL your life and will over to Christ, didn’t do or finish the spiritual inventory, didn’t admit your wrongs to God, yourself, someone you trust, didn’t forgive or make amends to those you need to, didn’t submit to the changes God wants to make in you…    then you are still in the cycle.  I often do the laundry; I kinda enjoy it.  I reuse the rinse water for the next load of wash.  It seems that once per wash day the dryer stops and I find the washer full of water and dirty clothes.  Why: because it is stuck in the cycle…after sucking the old rinse water back in, I neglected to advance the dial to the wash setting, so my dirty laundry just sits there, wet, dirty, stuck in the cycle.  If you’re still stuck in the cycle, it’s not because the Steps don’t work.  I’m gonna guess that the breakdown was a failure to trust and obey God as He tried to lead you through the Steps and a failure to praise God.

The Crossroad

Step 10 is not a place to stop great progress and rest on recent victories.  “Let him who thinks he stands take heed lest he fall” (1 Cor 10:12).  Relapse is looming as soon as you start to you’re your guard…as soon as you decide to “take a rest for a while.”  Step 10 is not a place you expect to start anew if you’ve skipped Steps 1-9!  You cannot skip Steps.  Trying to do so means you think you’re above it, or that you know better than God…that’s called idolatry – making a god of your design.

Most recovery material refers to Steps 10 through 12 as the “maintenance steps.”  That doesn’t mean auto-pilot!  God is just beginning to make the necessary changes…it’s a life-long process.  Remember Principle 3?  It says, “We made a decision to turn our life and will over to Christ.”  Now starts the rest of your life…making choices over what god you will worship:           gods of your father and mother, gods of your past, gods of our culture, OR the One True God.  We’ll talk more about these “other gods” in the weeks ahead.  The fact is, you will trust, you will praise some god.  Which one will it be?  A god you choose or the God who chose you?  READ Isaiah 44:6-17.   What will you do?

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